My husband hates cruising but loves that I love cruising, I have taken a number of cruises recently without him and many of our friends find it odd. He is happy being home with the dog, playing golf, enjoying the peace and quiet. I am happy cruising. After 40 years together, we are content in our togetherness and enjoy time apart as well.
I've seen too many miserable cruisers who do not want to be there- sitting in a chair, being dragged all over and I refuse to force him to cruise with me. Works for us, would it work for you?